This is not my usual offering, so I apologize to those of you looking for originality, but when I stumbled on this text from a home economics book printed in 1950, I couldn’t resist sharing. I was reminded of a few lines from the B.B.C Comedy, Doc Martin, when he asked an old lover if she had ever been married. “Not long enough to do any permanent damage,” she replied.
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve got nothing against marriage. God knows I’ve tried it often enough.
As challenging as this is to read, (you may need a vomit bag) reading it gives me hope that the unchangeable really does change given enough time and intelligence.
Ready? Got your bag handy?
Instruction for future wives:
1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.
2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work- weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.
3. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.
4. Prepare the children: Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.
5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.
6. Things to avoid: Don’t greet him with problems or complaints. Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.
7. Make him comfortable: Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.
8. Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.
9. Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax.
10. The goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax.
2 thoughts on “Home Economics 1950”
We’ve come a long way baby!!! HA HA HA! Isn’t this just amazing! My goodness, no wonder so many women smoked, drank and took prescription drugs, my gosh, you would have to, or at least I would have! Can you imagine? Hand me the bag!
OMG – I think Dr. Laura plagarized this! This is the basis of her philosophy in, yes, 2010!!!